I have been in churches where tongues were the most normal thing in the world, and churches where you could tell from the slightly nervous energy that the topic was not welcome. I have met believers who treat it as the definitive sign of the Holy Spirit's presence, and believers who are quietly sure it stopped with the apostles. Almost everyone has an opinion. Very few people have sat carefully with what the text actually says.
Let us do that. No agenda toward either camp. Just an honest reading of what is there.
What Happened in Acts 2
At Pentecost the disciples were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other tongues as the Spirit enabled them. What happened next is important: people from at least fifteen different regions heard them speaking in their own native languages. These were recognisable human languages that the speakers had not learned. The crowd was astonished. Peter stood up and explained: this is what the prophet Joel promised. The Holy Spirit has been poured out.
So at Pentecost, tongues functioned as known human languages spoken supernaturally. The purpose was clear. It was a sign to the diverse crowd gathered in Jerusalem, and it was the inaugural event of the promised Spirit being given to the new covenant community.
What Paul Describes in 1 Corinthians
The Corinthian church was enthusiastically charismatic and somewhat chaotic about it, and Paul spends chapters 12 through 14 bringing order to the gift heavy worship environment. What he describes seems to be something different from the Acts 2 event. Not recognisable human languages understood by listeners, but a kind of speech that requires interpretation to be useful to anyone else.
"For anyone who speaks in a tongue does not speak to people but to God. Indeed, no one understands them; they utter mysteries by the Spirit."
1 Corinthians 14:2Paul is not condemning this. He says he speaks in tongues more than all of them. But he places it in its proper context: in a gathering of the church, tongues without interpretation does not build up other people, so it is less useful than prophecy in a communal setting. Used privately or with interpretation, it is genuinely valuable.
Two Functions Worth Understanding
Most careful readers of the New Testament see two distinct expressions of tongues. The first is the Acts 2 kind: supernaturally known human languages, a sign gift for specific evangelistic or missional moments. The second is what Paul describes: a form of prayer or worship to God that bypasses the rational mind and operates at a level the understanding cannot reach, what Romans 8 describes as the Spirit interceding with groanings too deep for words.
Paul describes this private use as spiritually edifying to the person praying. It builds you up, even though your mind is unfruitful. He sees value in that. But he also wants to pray with his mind as well. Both. Not either/or.
"For if I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays, but my mind is unfruitful. So what shall I do? I will pray with my spirit, but I will also pray with my understanding; I will sing with my spirit, but I will also sing with my understanding."
1 Corinthians 14:14-15An Honest Place to Start
Whatever your background on this topic, have you actually brought your questions about tongues to God directly, or have you just adopted the position of the tradition you were raised in? Either way, there is room to ask honestly: Holy Spirit, what do you want me to understand about this?
What Paul Does Not Say
He does not say tongues has ceased. The cessationist argument, that the gift was only for the apostolic age, is a theological inference, not an explicit New Testament teaching. What Paul actually says is "do not forbid speaking in tongues" (1 Corinthians 14:39). He also says not everyone speaks in tongues (1 Corinthians 12:30), which means it is not the definitive marker of Spirit baptism that some traditions have taught.
The honest reading is that tongues is a real gift, that it functions differently in different contexts, that it is valuable especially in private prayer, that it needs to be handled with wisdom and order in community settings, and that it is not to be despised or made the measure of everyone spiritual life.
What to Do If You Want to Know More
Ask the Holy Spirit directly. He is a Person. Ask Him to show you what He wants you to know about this. That is where all real revelation starts anyway.
Read 1 Corinthians 12 through 14 in one sitting, slowly. Let Paul make his argument in full rather than pulling single verses out of context. His concern throughout is that spiritual gifts serve love and build up the Body. That is the lens for all of it.
Hold your position with some humility. Believers who love Jesus and take Scripture seriously are on both sides of this conversation. That should make us careful about being certain that our camp is the only reasonable position.
Holy Spirit, You are the source of all spiritual gifts, and You know best how You want to distribute them. Forgive me for the times I have been more concerned with protecting my position than seeking Your truth. Help me to hold my views with humility and to seek Your heart above my preferences. Teach me to value what builds up the Body above what makes me comfortable. In Jesus Name, Amen.
The gifts of the Spirit exist to build up the Body of Christ and to bear witness to the living God. Whatever your view on tongues specifically, that purpose is the right measuring stick. Hold the gift, and every gift, by whether it produces love and points to Jesus. With honesty and hope, Claire