Can I tell you what my mornings used to look like?
Eyes open. Phone in hand. Before my feet hit the floor, I had already absorbed a news headline, three notifications, someone opinion about something, and a photo of a meal I would never make. By the time I sat down for prayer, my head was so full of the world that I could barely hear myself think, let alone hear God.
I was technically fasting from food a couple of days a week. I thought I was doing something spiritual. But I was stuffing myself on noise from the moment I woke up, and wondering why I felt so disconnected from God.
That is when I started to understand that fasting was never just about food.
"But when you fast, put oil on your head and wash your face, so that it will not be obvious to others that you are fasting, but only to your Father, who is unseen."
Matthew 6:17-18What Fasting Was Always About
Jesus assumes His followers will fast. Not that they might, or that they should consider it. He says when you fast, not if. He takes it as a given that people who follow Him will choose, at regular intervals, to go without something they normally have.
The purpose was never the hunger. The hunger was a side effect. The purpose was creating space. Emptying a room so that Someone else could fill it. When you stop filling yourself with something, you become aware of what was actually feeding you, and what was actually drowning out His voice.
For the ancient believer, fasting from food was one of the most disruptive things they could do. It interrupted the rhythms of daily life, the gathering around the table, the comfort of the familiar. It made the ordinary feel strange and, in that strangeness, made room for the sacred.
Here is the honest question for us. What is the equivalent disruption today?
The New Noise
I am not saying food fasting is irrelevant. It is powerful and it is biblical and there are seasons when God calls you into it specifically. But I want us to sit with something.
In the ancient world, silence was the default. Noise was the interruption. You had to go somewhere, do something, create a reason for the sound. If you wanted quiet, you mostly already had it. The discipline was learning to stay present in it rather than filling it.
In our world, that is completely reversed. Noise is the default. Silence is the disruption. Your phone fills the gaps. Your earbuds fill the commute. Your screens fill the evenings. Even in the moments that used to be naturally quiet, waiting in a line, lying in bed, sitting at a table alone, we reach for the input almost without thinking.
We are not bad people for doing this. We have been shaped by a world that has engineered our attention away from stillness. But the cost is real. The Father still speaks in the still small voice. And if we have filled every still moment with something louder, we will miss Him. Not because He stopped talking. Because we stopped being quiet enough to hear.
"Be still, and know that I am God."
Psalm 46:10What a Fast from Noise Actually Looks Like
I want to be practical here, because I think we can overcomplicate this and end up doing nothing.
A fast from noise does not mean you become a monk. It does not mean you delete your apps forever or stop watching television or go live in a cabin. It means you intentionally create stretches of time where you choose silence over input, and you bring that silence to God.
Here are some forms this has taken in my own life and the lives of people I know.
The morning silence fast. Before you reach for your phone in the morning, you do not. You get up, make your tea or your coffee, and you spend the first fifteen minutes in complete quiet. No podcast. No news. No scroll. Just you and Him and the morning. You will be amazed what rises to the surface when the noise stops.
The commute fast. If you drive or travel to work, you choose one day a week where you do not turn on anything. No music, no podcast, no phone call. You drive in silence and you let your mind rest, and often what comes in that space is prayer you did not know you needed to pray.
The sabbath input fast. One day a week, or even half a day, where you fast from social media, news, and entertainment entirely. Not to be pious. Not to be legalistic. But to recalibrate. To feel what it is like to inhabit your actual life without the overlay of everyone else.
The notification fast. This one sounds small but it is not. Turning off all notifications for a day, or a week, and noticing how differently time moves when you are not being constantly pulled out of the present moment.
"In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength."
Isaiah 30:15What You Find in the Quiet
Here is what I have found, and what I have heard from others who have tried this. The first thing you feel when you stop the noise is usually discomfort. Your brain, used to constant input, panics a little. You feel restless. You want to reach for something. That restlessness is information. It is showing you how dependent you have become on distraction, and how much unprocessed life is waiting just beneath the surface.
But if you stay in the quiet, something shifts. Thoughts settle. Feelings that have been running beneath the surface come up where you can actually look at them. And in that space, God speaks. Not always dramatically. Usually quietly. A verse that has been sitting in your memory suddenly carries weight. A sense of direction you had not been able to find begins to clarify. A heaviness lifts and you cannot explain why except that you were finally still enough for grace to reach you.
The mystics called it recollection. The practice of gathering yourself back from all the places you had scattered. Coming home to your own interior. Meeting God there.
It is not complicated. But it requires the one thing our age makes hardest: the willingness to stop.
Try This Today
For the next seven mornings, before you pick up your phone, spend ten minutes in silence. Sit with a cup of something warm if it helps. Ask God one simple question: "What do you want to say to me today?" Then wait. Write down whatever comes. Do this for a week and pay attention to what changes.
This Is Not About Performance
I want to close with this because I know some of us will read a post like this and immediately turn it into another thing to feel guilty about. Another spiritual discipline we are failing at. Another way we are not measuring up.
That is not what this is.
Fasting from noise is not a performance. It is not something you do to impress God or earn a quieter version of yourself. It is something you do because you love Him and you are hungry for more of Him, and you have started to notice that the noise is getting in the way of that.
God is not withholding Himself from you because your phone is too loud. He is present, always and everywhere. But intimacy, real intimacy, the kind that marks you and changes you and fills you, requires a certain quality of attention. It requires you to actually show up. And you cannot fully show up if you have already given your attention to a hundred other things before the sun has fully risen.
The world will be noisy again the moment you pick your phone back up. That is fine. This is not about escaping the world. It is about finding, again and again, the still place in the middle of it where you know you are held. Where His voice is clearer than everything else. Where you remember who you are and whose you are.
That place is always available. It just costs you the noise.
Father, teach me to fast from noise. Help me to create space in my day to hear your voice. Give me the courage to stop, to be still, and to know that you are God. I want to hear you more clearly. In Jesus Name, Amen.
With honesty and hope,
Claire