My son, you are always with me, and everything I have is yours.
Luke 15:31This brother is often treated as a minor character, but Jesus told this whole parable to thePhari- sees, to people who had stayed faithful, who had done the right things, who kept the law.
Luke 15:1–2He was angry and would not go in. So the father went out and pleaded with him.
Luke 15:28This brother is often treated as a minor character, but Jesus told this whole parable to thePhari- sees, to people who had stayed faithful, who had done the right things, who kept the law. They were the elder brother. That is why the story ended where it did: with a question hanging in the air.
His sin was not rebellion. It was resentment. He stayed. He obeyed. And somewhere along the years, the staying became scorekeeping. He had never been given a party. He had never been celebrated. He had done everything right and received what felt like nothing, while the son who had done everything wrong got the robe and the ring and the fatted calf.
He could not celebrate because he had not understood what he had. Son, you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. He had been living in the house, working in the fields, eating at the table, and had not known what that meant. The prodigal knew what he had come home to. The elder brother did not know where he had been all along.
The father came outside for him too. The story is not over.
Stop the Scorekeeping
Is there a prodigal in your world whose return you are struggling to celebrate? Be honest about any scorekeeping you have been doing on grace, the quiet resentment of what others receive.
- Where have I been the elder brother, faithful on the outside, resentful on the inside?
- What have I been keeping score on?
- What have I been missing about what I already have?
- What would it look like to celebrate instead of compare?
- Who is the prodigal in my world whose return I cannot celebrate?
- Am I living in the house or standing in the field?
- What would the father say to me about what I already have?
- Will I let Him come outside for me?
Lord, show me where I have been the elder brother, faithful on the outside, resentful on the inside. Where I have been keeping score instead of receiving what You have freely given me all along. Come outside and find me. I do not want to stay in the field. In Jesus name, Amen.
The father came outside for him too. The story is not over.
With love, Claire